Why Men Are Giving Up On Approaching Women - The New Reality

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The Filipina Pea

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It's no surprise why men are giving up on approaching women directly, and instead either using social media as the preferred means of contact, or ... just not bothering to pursue women at all. Let's talk to members of both sexes, and see what the problem is, what the future of dating might be like, and find out why men are giving up on approaching women!


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- **00:00 – 00:15** Intro & Key Stat
“Hi folks, The Filipina P here… over half of men under 40 haven’t even approached a woman in the last year.”

- **00:15 – 00:30** Framing the Question
“Are men just too shy, waiting for women to show interest, or outright done with the whole dating mess?”

- **00:30 – 01:00** Guest 1: Shyness vs Boldness
“We’re a little shy… but women like guys who’ll take the risk to come up and talk.”

- **01:00 – 01:30** Guest 2: Confidence & Fear of Rejection
“Guys don’t ask because they’re scared of a ‘no’—so they’d rather not ask at all.”

- **01:30 – 02:00** Pickup Lines: Cheesy vs Original
“Most openers are lame cheeseballs: ‘Did you fall from heaven?’—and yes, women do fall for it sometimes.”

- **02:00 – 02:30** Strange Approaches
“Whistles, barks like a dog… the weirdos who’ll make you look at them crazy.”

- **02:30 – 03:00** Romantic Gestures: Flowers & Serenades
“If a guy really likes you, he might bring flowers or serenade you—yes, here in the U.S., too.”

- **03:00 – 03:30** Social Media’s Impact
“Dating apps have killed spontaneity; we’re obsessed with filters and statuses, not real moments.”

- **03:30 – 04:00** Settling vs Mr. Right
“Is it easier to settle just to get married? Some say yes—others vow to wait 20 years for the right one.”

- **04:00 – 04:30** Filipino Traditions: Chopping Wood & Serenading
“Back home, a suitor might chop firewood or fetch water for your family—old-school courtship.”

- **04:30 – 05:00** Modern vs Traditional Roles
“Women want chivalry but aren’t always ready to play traditional roles in return—cue cultural clash.”

- **05:00 – 05:30** Dating Data Snapshot
“This swipe-and-click culture means 20% of men snag 80% of dates—and looks rule the roost.”

- **05:30 – 06:00** Why the Philippines Still Rocks Romance
“Over there, we actually appreciate a masculine, romantic guy… and yes, we’ll be feminine right back.”

- **06:00 – 06:30** Wrap-Up & Key Takeaways
“Men want more confidence; women crave genuine gestures. Chivalry isn’t dead—it just moved across the sea.”

- **06:30 – 07:00** CTA & Teaser
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